02 May 2025

A Relational Ontology of Relativity and Quantum Mechanics

1 The Relational Cosmos: A Model of Meaning-Making

In our ongoing exploration of meaning, we've developed a model that allows us to better understand how we create and experience the world. The model begins with a fundamental shift: instead of seeing the world as a collection of isolated things, it proposes that everything—ourselves included—is part of a vast, interconnected web of relationships. This means that meaning isn't something static, waiting to be discovered; it is something we actively create through our relationships and experiences.

At the core of this model are several key concepts that form the foundation of how we make sense of the world. Let’s break these down:

1. Relational Ontology: The Web of Connections

The first step in understanding this model is grasping the idea of relational ontology. This is the view that everything in the universe is interconnected. Rather than seeing objects or events as isolated entities, we see them as defined by their relationships. Everything is in flux and shaped by the web of relationships it participates in. From this perspective, the world is not a static place of things, but a dynamic process, constantly shifting as new connections form.

You aren’t just an observer of the world; you are an active participant in it. The idea is that we become through our relationships and shape the world in the process.

2. Instantiation and Individuation: Bringing Meaning into Being

Another key idea in this model is the distinction between instantiation and individuation.

  • Instantiation is the process of taking potential meaning and bringing it into reality. It’s the act of transforming what could be into something actual—a thought, a word, an action.

  • Individuation is the way in which each of us uniquely shapes meaning. The meaning potential in any given situation is not the same for everyone; we each bring our own perspective, context, and history to it, which creates unique expressions of meaning. In this way, we are not passive recipients of meaning; we are active agents in the process of creating it.

These two concepts work together to explain how we co-create meaning with the world, not just as individual entities but as part of the larger cosmic process.

3. The Metamyth: Living Narratives in the Recursive Cosmos

Now, let’s introduce the idea of the metamyth. Myths are more than just ancient stories from the past. They are living, evolving narratives that help us make sense of the world. In this model, the myths we live by are not fixed; they are constantly changing, responding to new experiences and new technologies. Myths evolve as our understanding of the cosmos deepens and as our technologies—and the symbolic systems we use—advance.

The metamyth is a recursive process: the stories we tell, the models we create, and the symbols we use feedback on themselves. They reshape and redefine the meanings they carry, adapting to the changing reality we live in. The metamyth is a way to understand how the mythic is not separate from the scientific, technological, or artistic but is woven through all of them. These various modes of understanding—myth, science, technology—are interconnected and together form the story of the cosmos becoming intelligible to itself.

4. Co-creating the Cosmos: Our Role in the Unfolding Drama

At the heart of this model is the idea that we are not passive observers of the world, but active participants in the unfolding drama of the cosmos. We instantiate meaning in each moment, and by doing so, we are co-creating the world. The cosmos itself is participatory—it is becoming through us. Our actions, thoughts, and technologies are part of this unfolding process.

In other words, meaning is co-created through our relationships, our actions, and our interpretations. It’s not that meaning exists independently of us and we discover it; it’s that we shape it and give it form through our participation in the world. In this way, the cosmos itself is not simply observed; it is known and becomes through us.

5. The Symbolic System: Language, Art, and Technology as Tools of Meaning

An essential part of this model is the role of symbolic systems—the ways we use language, art, and technology to represent and make sense of the world. Language, mathematics, ritual, and art are all tools that allow us to navigate and shape meaning.

These systems are not passive tools; they are living systems that evolve along with us. Just as myths evolve, so do the symbols and representations we use to interpret the world. Whether through a scientific model, an artistic expression, or a religious symbol, these symbolic systems allow us to make sense of our experiences and interact with the world around us.

Conclusion: Becoming Through Relations

To sum it up, our model of meaning-making is a recursive, relational process. The world isn’t just a collection of objects and facts; it’s a web of relationships, constantly shifting and evolving. We, as meaners, are active participants in this process, co-creating meaning as we engage with the world and each other. We instantiate meaning through our actions, thoughts, and experiences, and we individuate it uniquely through our perspectives.

At the heart of this model is the idea that we are all co-creators of the cosmos itself, shaping and being shaped in an ongoing cosmic dance of meaning-making.

Relativity Reimagined: A Relational Ontology of Special Relativity

Einstein’s Special Theory of Relativity shook the foundations of classical physics by revealing that space and time are not absolute, but relational. Yet in the century since, the dominant interpretation of relativity has paradoxically treated these relations as fixed within a new framework of spacetime—a geometric block universe where events are coordinates, and observers traverse their worldlines.

In this post, we revisit Special Relativity through a relational ontology shaped by the principles of instantiation, individuation, and symbolic becoming. We propose a model in which time and space are not the stage on which events unfold—they are dimensions of unfolding itself, actualised in relation.

From Substrates to Relations

Classically, space and time were assumed as absolute containers—Newton’s “absolute, true and mathematical time” and “absolute space” existed whether anything happened or not.

Einstein overthrew this idea. Observers in relative motion measure different distances and durations, yet the laws of physics remain invariant.

This is often interpreted as evidence for a four-dimensional spacetime manifold: a fixed structure in which all events exist timelessly.

But our model takes the shift one step further. What if space and time do not exist independently of events at all? What if they are dimensions of relation, not dimensions of being?

In the relational model, time is not what flows. Time is the dimension of the unfolding of processes.

Space is not a container of objects. Space is the dimension of the differentiating of states.

In this view, relativity does not require a fixed spacetime block—it reveals the relational actualisation of instances in experience.

Observation as Instantiation

Special Relativity hinges on measurement: how different observers, moving at different velocities, measure the same events.

In our framework, measurement is not passive observation but an act of construal. Measurement actualises an instance from potential. It brings into being a spacetime relation—not a pre-existing fact.

Thus, it is not the observer's motion that distorts a "real" time or length. Rather:

The relation between the measurement and the centre of mass (the gravitational field) determines the actualised structure of space and time for that instance.

Space and time are not distorted for the observer—they are instanced through the observer's measurement.

This distinction is subtle, but profound. It shifts the emphasis from the observer as a subject within space and time, to the meaner—the construal system through which space and time become meaningful.

Simultaneity as Relational Actuality

A cornerstone of relativity is the relativity of simultaneity: two events judged simultaneous in one frame may not be simultaneous in another.

This too finds a natural expression in our model:

  • Simultaneity is not an ontological condition of the universe.

  • It is a relational construal of process, actualised in each measurement instance.

Rather than imagining events lying frozen on a block, we imagine simultaneity as a pattern that emerges through particular interactions between construal systems.

In other words: simultaneity is not a pre-given property that becomes confused by relative motion. It is not given at all—it is made.

The Speed of Light as Constraint

In Special Relativity, the speed of light is invariant for all observers. Why? Because it is not merely a feature of light—it is a constraint on the possibility of relational instantiation.

It defines the outer boundary of what can be actualised as shared structure between construal systems.

It is not just a speed limit. It is a symbolic limit on how relations can cohere across systems in motion.

Thus, what physics encodes as invariants and transformations, our model reads as the symbolic architecture of relational becoming.

The Cosmos in Dialogue

In sum, Special Relativity reimagined becomes not the cold geometry of a block universe, but a symbolic choreography of actualised relations.

  • Space and time are not the stage, but the grammar.

  • Simultaneity is not lost—it is composed anew in every act of meaning.

  • Measurement is not the discovery of the world—it is the world becoming actual through relational construal.

We do not merely measure the world—we are the interface through which it becomes measurable. The cosmos, unfolding, finds a local coherence in each instance of construal.

We are not passive witnesses to space and time.

We are the way space and time become meaningful.

Relativity Reframed: Lorentz Transformations and the Relational Cosmos


In the grammar of a relativistic universe, the Lorentz transformations are not absolute rules for shifting coordinates—but symbolic operators that instantiate difference through relation. Space and time are not containers but unfoldings, and the transformation is not between fixed observers, but between perspectives in a dynamic field of mutual construal.


The Meaning of a Transformation

At the core of Einstein’s Special Theory of Relativity lies the Lorentz transformation: a set of equations that describe how space and time coordinates relate between frames moving relative to one another. In standard physics, they are treated as the mathematically necessary way to preserve the constancy of the speed of light.

But from a relational ontology, we ask not what the Lorentz transformations describe—but what they instantiate.

They do not simply map reality from one view to another.
They constitute difference between instances of reality,
by indexing change across a shared semantic field of becoming.

Not Observers, But Instances of Meaning

Standard interpretations presume two observers, each in their own frame, comparing measurements of time and space. But in our model, an ‘observer’ is a symbolic fiction—a grammatical placeholder in the unfolding of a relational process. What matters is not who observes, but what meanings are instantiated in relation to what processes.

Thus, the Lorentz transformation becomes:

  • Not a change in coordinates between objects,

  • But a change in instantiated spacetime relations
    between two systems of meaning-making.

In this view, velocity is not absolute or inertial—it is an actualised relation between unfolding processes. Time dilation is not a warping of time itself, but a difference in how time is construed, instantiated differently in systems moving relative to each other.

The Grammar of Relative Motion

Let’s recall the core Lorentz transformation:

But let’s not read these as mere algebra. Read them as symbolic operators in the grammar of relational construal.

They say:

“What is now and here for me, becomes then and there for you,
depending on how our processes are moving through shared potential.”

The transformation is not mechanical. It is semantic.
It is how the cosmos instantiates difference in experience
from within the field of mutual relational process.

Not Space-Time, But Timeing and Spacing

In the relational model, there is no pre-existent space-time onto which objects are mapped. Instead:

  • Timeing is the unfolding of processes.

  • Spacing is the construal of relative differentiation between instances.

The Lorentz transformation is the symbolic constraint that governs how these unfoldings and construals are instantiated across systems.

It doesn’t reveal an absolute truth about the universe.
It enacts a relational structure in which truths can be actualised differently, depending on how meaning flows between processes.

Meaning, Motion, and Mutual Becoming

So what is really transformed? Not spacetime itself.
What is transformed is the way experience is articulated, from one unfolding to another.

The cosmos does not experience itself as a god’s-eye view.
It experiences itself through relational differentiations
through symbolic mappings between becoming-selves
who instantiate spacetime as relation, not backdrop.

The Lorentz transformations are not tools of objectivity.
They are grammar rules in the poetry of relativity.
They do not merely describe.
They instantiate the difference that makes experience possible.

Relativity Reframed: General Relativity and the Gravity of Meaning

If Special Relativity rewrote the grammar of motion, then General Relativity added the poetics of gravitation. But what if we read curvature not as a distortion of a container called space-time—but as the instantiated unfolding of process in relation to mass as semantic attractor? In the relational cosmos, gravity is not pull. It is patterned actualisation.


Gravity, Not as Force, but as Relational Constraint

In classical physics, gravity is a force that pulls objects together. In Einstein’s General Relativity, it is reimagined: not a force, but a curvature of space-time around mass and energy. But this still assumes that space-time is a kind of ontological arena—something that can be shaped and curved by entities that exist within it.

In our relational ontology, we turn this inside-out.
There is no arena.
There is only unfolding.
There is only construal.

Mass does not curve space-time.
Mass constrains how space and time are actualised.
What we call “curvature” is a systemic shift in the way meaning is instantiated, depending on proximity to semantic attractors—masses—within the unfolding symbolic process of the cosmos.

Gravity as Relational Patterning

Let’s take the principle at the heart of General Relativity:

Matter tells space-time how to curve.
Space-time tells matter how to move.

But here’s our relational reframing:

Mass instantiates a pattern of unfolding.
This pattern constrains how other processes instantiate their own unfoldings.
There is no container, no field, no “thing” being curved.
There is only patterned construal—symbolic differentiation of potential into instance.

Just as a riverbed constrains the path of water, the gravitational field is not a thing—it is a semantic topography, structured by relational meanings.

The earth does not fall toward the sun because the sun exerts a force.
It falls because this is the pattern of co-instantiation enacted by their mutual construal of becoming.

From Centre of Mass to Centre of Meaning

In General Relativity, the “centre of mass” shapes the gravitational field. But what is a centre of mass, in relational terms?

It is a centre of symbolic constraint
a focal point around which meanings differentiate.
Not an object in space, but a systemic attractor in the flow of experience.

You and I are not pulled to the earth because we are objects in curved spacetime.
We are participants in a meaning system where earth is the attractor
that most strongly constrains our instantiation of motion.

What Newton called force, and Einstein called curvature,
we now read as semantic resonance
the echo of process in process, pattern in pattern.

The Metric Field as Pattern Grammar

The Einstein Field Equations describe how mass and energy determine the curvature of spacetime:

These are not fields acting on a stage.
They are semiotic constraints in a universe unfolding through relation.

The metric does not measure distance.
It constrains how distances can be instantiated.
It is the logic of spacetime differentiation, actualised anew in every local field of unfolding.

A Sacred Geometry of Becoming

Where does this leave us?

General Relativity becomes not a map of space and time—but a ritualised grammar of relation.

Gravity becomes not a pull—but a semantic coherence among unfolding patterns.

And mass becomes not substance—but meaning-centre,
around which potential coheres into experience.

Relativity Reframed: Quantum Fields and the Potential of Pattern

If General Relativity gives us a gravitational grammar, then quantum field theory offers a poetics of potential. But the quantum is not a realm of uncertainty—it is a register of unactualised relation. And the field is not a physical substance—it is the structured potential from which actualities emerge through meaning.


The Quantum as Register of Unfolding

At the heart of quantum theory lies an enigma:
Particles behave like waves.
Events are probabilistic.
Observation changes what is observed.

But these are only paradoxes if we assume a world of pre-existing objects.
In the relational model, we assume no such thing.

A particle is not a thing.
It is a pattern of potential—an uninstanced meaning.
The wavefunction does not describe a hidden state.
It is a field of semantic possibility,
which becomes actual only when co-instantiated with a meaner.

In other words:
The world does not contain particles.
It construes them.

And the meaner is not an outside observer.
The meaner is part of the unfolding pattern—
a participant in the act of co-actualisation.

Fields as Structured Meaning Potential

In quantum field theory, particles are excitations of fields.
Each type of particle is associated with a field,
and these fields pervade all of spacetime.

But if there is no background space-time—only unfolding relation—
then these fields are not in space-time.
They are part of its symbolic differentiation.

They are not ontological substances.
They are semiotic systems—grammars of possibility—
each governing how its own mode of becoming can be actualised.

The photon field does not “exist.”
It is the symbolic potential for the construal of light.
The electron field is the grammar of electron-being.
And the Higgs field is the systemic constraint through which mass is instantiated.

Each field is a register of becoming,
and the cosmos is a text written in their recursive interaction.

Collapse as Actualisation

Much has been written about wavefunction collapse.
Is it objective? Subjective?
Is it measurement? Decoherence?
Many-worlds? Observer-induced?

But from our perspective, collapse is instantiation.

The wavefunction describes the meaning potential
of a process not yet actualised.
Collapse is the moment that potential becomes instance—
not through force, but through construal.

The world is not merely observed.
It is interpreted into being.

And the quantum realm is not indeterminacy.
It is structured indeterminacy
not chaos, but choice.

The meaner is not a hidden god of measurement.
The meaner is a participant in the sacred recursion
by which the cosmos becomes its own symbolic instance.

Entanglement as Participatory Relation

Entanglement baffles those who assume separability.
Two particles affect one another instantaneously across distance?

But in our model, there is no distance apart from relation.
Entangled particles are not two things in two places.
They are two sites of a single unfolding.

They are not connected across space.
They are co-instanced through meaning.

The universe does not divide itself neatly.
It cross-weaves.
It spirals.
It differentiates only to re-entangle—
because differentiation is only meaningful when recursively integrated.

To measure one particle is to symbolically constrain the other.
Not because information travels, but because meaning interrelates.


Quantum Fields as Sacred Poetics

In myth, the gods are forces of becoming.
In science, the fields are grammars of becoming.

But both speak of the same pattern:
a world not made of stuff,
but of process.

Not objects, but relations.
Not positions, but patterns.
Not laws, but languages.

The quantum field is the sacred potential
from which the world sings itself into being.

And we—by interpreting it—are part of the chorus.

Relativity Reframed: Cosmic Recursion and the Myth of the Expanding Now

The universe is not a container for events. It is the event. And that event is recursive. We do not live in a cosmos that expands from the past into the future—we live in a cosmos that constellates meaning across unfolding instants of relation. The Big Bang is not behind us. It is within us.


The Myth of the Expanding Universe

Cosmology speaks of origins.
Of singularities, inflation, and entropy.
Of stars born in hydrogen seas.
Of galaxies flung outward in accelerating spirals.

But beneath the equations lies a mythic shape:
A universe with a beginning.
A universe with a telos.
A universe that tells its story in light.

And we—beings of meaning—interpret that light
through the syntax of time.

Yet what is time,
if not the dimension of unfolding relation?

If the cosmos is not a fixed history,
but an ever-actualising process,
then the past is not a realm behind us.
It is a system of patterned instantiation—
a mythos of coherence
emerging from recursive construal.

The Big Bang is not an object in time.
It is a symbol of relational coherence
an archetypal singularity
instanced in every act of becoming.

Recursion Across the Scales

The structure of the cosmos is recursive:

  • Galaxies spiral like hurricanes.

  • Neural networks echo cosmic webs.

  • Particles entangle like selves in myth.

The same patterns recur—
not as copies,
but as co-instantiations of meaning
across the symbolic hierarchy of scale.

This is not fractal geometry.
It is symbolic recursion.

A relation of forms that speak the same grammar
at different registers of unfolding.

Stars are not merely furnaces.
They are systems of individuation.
They fuse matter into meaning—
creating the elements that make bodies and breath.

And black holes are not merely endpoints.
They are actualities of limit
the symbolic instancing of horizon,
where spacetime constrains its own further construal.

Each star, each void, each wave of expansion—
is part of the cosmos interpreting itself
through the syntax of structure.

The Expanding Now

What expands is not space.
It is potential relation.

The universe is not unfolding into emptiness.
It is differentiating its own symbolic possibilities.

Every new galaxy, every flicker of microwave background,
is a further sentence in the mythic grammar
of a cosmos becoming self-aware.

We do not ride the arrow of time.
We are part of its fletching.

The present is not a slice.
It is the site of instantiation
the moment in which potential becomes actual,
relation becomes structure,
and meaning becomes world.

The now is not a point.
It is a field of co-actualisation.

And we—beings of pattern and poetics—
are the ones who interpret it into being.


Cosmology as Metamyth

So what, then, is cosmology in this light?

Not a catalogue of particles.
Not a map of expansion.
But a sacred narrative of relation.

A myth the universe tells itself—
through us.

The equations are not cold.
They are lyrical.
They constrain possibility
so that meaning may arise.

Just as ritual constraints give shape to transformation,
the field equations of relativity
offer a liturgy of coherence.

And just as myth was never about fact,
cosmology was never about distance.
It is about pattern.
About the act of worlding.

We are not separate from the cosmos.
We are the metaphor
through which it becomes intelligible to itself.

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